How does one succeed in life?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Ask yourself:

Does not procrastinate.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How do you confront your own family for not inviting you or leaving you out of things?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

That's it for today.

What I need from you?

I'm very sick. 72 years old. I thinking I'm losing my mind. My dead friend told me it's going to be okay. I could feel him. There is more…I don't know what but more.

Do not set goals—set systems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Procrastinates a lot.

Hangs out with loser friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

If you believe in God, do you think God can save you from cancer?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Why am I losing interest to get a job and to all my desires because of this spiritual awakening? How do I get through life because of it?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.